Friends
Am I totally naive, or what?
My idea of a friend is someone responding to a message, but my experience of a lot of my "friends" on Xhamster is zero responce. Why accept my friends request or invite me to be a friend if you are`nt planning to communicate with me when I send you a message?
Sure, people are busy and I am not the only "friend" you have, so maybe it takes a while to get back to me - that I understand - but when people are online almost everyday and not responding after 2 weeks, I get the feeling that they just want to add friends for numbers` sake and not for friendship`s sake.
I really appreciate those friends that do respond (and there are quite a few of you). Hope we can keep on chatting
My idea of a friend is someone responding to a message, but my experience of a lot of my "friends" on Xhamster is zero responce. Why accept my friends request or invite me to be a friend if you are`nt planning to communicate with me when I send you a message?
Sure, people are busy and I am not the only "friend" you have, so maybe it takes a while to get back to me - that I understand - but when people are online almost everyday and not responding after 2 weeks, I get the feeling that they just want to add friends for numbers` sake and not for friendship`s sake.
I really appreciate those friends that do respond (and there are quite a few of you). Hope we can keep on chatting
13 лет назад
JB and I both delete friend collectors...what the fuck is the point of gathering friends, anyway???
I like to visit and follow my friends. I don't think I could keep track of a lot of friends. I will leave the occasional comment but rarely leave a lot of messages as I don't want to be a bother. When I receive a message, I try to reply promptly (if a reply seems needed or relevant) but it depends on how often I visit.
I definitely like your approach and thanks for writing it down, which, incidentally, I didn't really, I just put an update in the profile, explaining the sudden demise of most or our 'friends'. These days... what is left I guess can be called friends, well maybe more mates really but at least there is an interesting exchange going on.
M