The Experience of Extreme Edging, Part I
For a long time I've known that I get a thrill out of edging -- playing with being at on the verge of cumming, the proverbial 'point of no return' for guys.
Orgasms feel awesome, and are a great release that many of us crave. Evolution has made sure that we find them so compelling, and that we lose our self control to the point where for guys most sex, and most masturbation, ends with the guy shooting his load in fairly short order. A central point of sex is procreation, of course.
Here comes a downside. After a guy cums, there's typically a period of time when he's not aroused, or even interested in more sex, the 'refractory period.' Your mileage will vary, obviously, but for me as an older guy a full orgasm once a day is close to the limit, without stretching things. For a teen boy it might be ten.
Whatever the case, when you have frequent orgasms, the sexual thrill and intensity of the sensations decrease markedly. In other words, even for a teen boy, his third cum of the day is going to feel a lot less satisfying than his first. (For women orgasms have a different dynamic, but there's a bit of similarity.) Think of it as a small stream of horny water filling a pool, and the cum releasing a flood of that horny. If the pool is close to full, you get a big thrill. If it's been drained too many times recently, not so much.
Here's where edging and orgasm denial comes in. You get the pleasure of masturbation or fucking, but by not going over the edge, you keep the horny pool full. You trade the big O release for having a very high level of arousal, and sexual readiness.
Lots of guys like to edge for a bit, when stroking or even when fucking. You can stretch out the pleasure from 5 minutes to 15, or 30, or even an hour!
What I'm talking about here, though, is edging over days. Stroking your cock while watching porn on XHamster, making hot love with your girl, all without cumming. Always stopping just before your cock erupts.
This can be a very difficult exercise in self-control, especially if you're used to always taking things to their conclusion quickly. But the buildup in hornyness, and lightning sexual response is truly amazing. I challenge any guy who has not experienced this to give it a try.
Day 1
Stroke to as many hot videos as you want. Go ahead -- no limit, the more the better. But don't cum. Fuck your partner, hard. But before you blow your load, slow or stop. Explain to her or him that you are exploring a part of your sexuality.
Day 2
On day two of edging, you will most likely feel that extra buzz and energy. You will respond to sexual cues very rapidly. When you watch that video clip, you'll get hard instantly, and your cock will be super responsive. It will be very hard to stop before cumming.
Day 3
You should continue to stroke and / or fuck. At this point, especially if you have not played this game before, you'll feel a powerful sexual urge. Sex and arousal will be on your brain almost constantly. The need to let your cum splash out (be it on your belly, in your partner, or elsewhere) will be almost overwhelming. And if you are still maintaining self-control, your reward is a level of horny that you probably have not experienced before. Your cock is leaking precum, and maybe even cum as you get close. The temptation to cum is so strong you don't know how you have the power to resist it. But you do.
Day 6
You feel like a champion. You have stroked to dozens of hot videos, and fucked your partner more times than they remember (without cumming.) And yet you get hard on a second's notice, ready for horny action. You have to be careful at work that colleagues don't notice your impromptu boners. It all feels so delicious, since you're now Mr. Superhorny.
However, there are some downsides. And also some sneaky ways you can have your cum and enjoy it too. All to be revealed in Part II.
Until then, stay horny, my sexy friends.
- Steven
Orgasms feel awesome, and are a great release that many of us crave. Evolution has made sure that we find them so compelling, and that we lose our self control to the point where for guys most sex, and most masturbation, ends with the guy shooting his load in fairly short order. A central point of sex is procreation, of course.
Here comes a downside. After a guy cums, there's typically a period of time when he's not aroused, or even interested in more sex, the 'refractory period.' Your mileage will vary, obviously, but for me as an older guy a full orgasm once a day is close to the limit, without stretching things. For a teen boy it might be ten.
Whatever the case, when you have frequent orgasms, the sexual thrill and intensity of the sensations decrease markedly. In other words, even for a teen boy, his third cum of the day is going to feel a lot less satisfying than his first. (For women orgasms have a different dynamic, but there's a bit of similarity.) Think of it as a small stream of horny water filling a pool, and the cum releasing a flood of that horny. If the pool is close to full, you get a big thrill. If it's been drained too many times recently, not so much.
Here's where edging and orgasm denial comes in. You get the pleasure of masturbation or fucking, but by not going over the edge, you keep the horny pool full. You trade the big O release for having a very high level of arousal, and sexual readiness.
Lots of guys like to edge for a bit, when stroking or even when fucking. You can stretch out the pleasure from 5 minutes to 15, or 30, or even an hour!
What I'm talking about here, though, is edging over days. Stroking your cock while watching porn on XHamster, making hot love with your girl, all without cumming. Always stopping just before your cock erupts.
This can be a very difficult exercise in self-control, especially if you're used to always taking things to their conclusion quickly. But the buildup in hornyness, and lightning sexual response is truly amazing. I challenge any guy who has not experienced this to give it a try.
Day 1
Stroke to as many hot videos as you want. Go ahead -- no limit, the more the better. But don't cum. Fuck your partner, hard. But before you blow your load, slow or stop. Explain to her or him that you are exploring a part of your sexuality.
Day 2
On day two of edging, you will most likely feel that extra buzz and energy. You will respond to sexual cues very rapidly. When you watch that video clip, you'll get hard instantly, and your cock will be super responsive. It will be very hard to stop before cumming.
Day 3
You should continue to stroke and / or fuck. At this point, especially if you have not played this game before, you'll feel a powerful sexual urge. Sex and arousal will be on your brain almost constantly. The need to let your cum splash out (be it on your belly, in your partner, or elsewhere) will be almost overwhelming. And if you are still maintaining self-control, your reward is a level of horny that you probably have not experienced before. Your cock is leaking precum, and maybe even cum as you get close. The temptation to cum is so strong you don't know how you have the power to resist it. But you do.
Day 6
You feel like a champion. You have stroked to dozens of hot videos, and fucked your partner more times than they remember (without cumming.) And yet you get hard on a second's notice, ready for horny action. You have to be careful at work that colleagues don't notice your impromptu boners. It all feels so delicious, since you're now Mr. Superhorny.
However, there are some downsides. And also some sneaky ways you can have your cum and enjoy it too. All to be revealed in Part II.
Until then, stay horny, my sexy friends.
- Steven
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